Friday, July 5, 2013
Her big girl pants have arrived
We are just a week away from the big moment. I have had 22.5 years to be ready for this. I guess I am. Her daddy clearly is not.
From the moment I held her little bald head in my hands and looked into her sparkling blue eyes, I knew this day would come. I had all these plans to be the best parent ever. Yeah, that got derailed here and there. More than a few times I have made the walk down the hallway to apologize for my higher than reasonable expectations. She is her daddy's girl. She has his sense of caring, his ability to be nice to people who just piss me off, his inability to lie. All amazing qualities.
I have pushed her over the years because I knew how much potential she had. She always hit the mark and then went a little further. She believes in commitment. She gives people second chances and third. She is beautiful, intelligent and know what she wants to do. She has successfully kept me out of jail helping me walk away from situations when someone just wronged her. And I don't mean piddly crap. Okay, maybe this is a slight exaggeration...
She has gotten the job right out of college that she wanted. We are so excited for her. Some time in the next week we will begin to gather all her things and transfer to her some of our things so she can start out with everything she needs. That has always been our desire, to give her what she needs. Now it will be from a distance.
7 days. That's all I have left. I know how excited she is (she mentions it every day and has a countdown). She is moving to the next exciting chapter of her life. I guess I am too. Her daddy, however, will likely call or text her every day. I think it will take him a few more years to let go. He still sees her like this: